Tuesday, August 10, 2010

Its been a while....

...since I last updated the blog- sorry everyone- I needed a break- I needed to re-energize myself- was having moments of weakness...
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Dad-
Friday: He went to the hospital to have chemotherapy, he was still having pain, however the new approach to controlling his pain is working better for him.
Saturday: We all had dinner together and hung out at home together- I fell asleep on couch at 10:00 pm, so I am not sure about the rest of the night- but how great it was to finally get some rest!!!
Sunday: Dad woke up with good spirits, a little "drugged up", sometimes he makes no sense, but it is funny- you have to have fun with your situation- at least try to. Jonathan, Sarah, Me, Mike, Nessa, mom and dad all went to Lake Anna to spend a couple hours on dad's new boat!! It was scary at first to take him out there, since he is a bit weak and fragile, but with great care we were able to be out on the boat for a good hour and half. We stopped by Lake Anna Cabana Restaurant for some fish and chips- dad's fave!! and it was delicious, aside from the hour wait to be seated and me almost passing out from heat exhaustion- that was really scary. I have low blood pressure and sometimes I cannot take heat for long periods of time. But a little bit of salt and lots of water later I was feeling like new!! Mom and dad left right after lunch around 3:00, it was already a long day for dad, but he had a good time. I will post some pictures here soon of our adventure.
The boat failed on us right after they left- isn't it amazing how things happen at the right time? We called Bass Pro Shop, where the boat was purchased at and they said there is a recall on the part that failed on the engine. We had to leave- oops no water tubing this time- maybe next weekend...
We all were exhausted by the end of the night and got some rest.
Monday: Dad woke up with just a little bit of pain, but he was shaking, his urine was dark, and he was feeling light headed- We arranged to take him to the doctor at noon- He went and they did an extensive blood test and gave him lots of IV fluids- I was suspecting he was very dehydrated. They say the pain near his stomach and chest may be a pancreas inflammation- a side effect from the new chemotherapy (Doxil). We are waiting for blood test results which will come today- Tuesday- when dad goes in for more chemotherapy. Until then we keep on praying and staying positive!!
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Staying positive is the way to go. I have been having a really hard time the past few weeks with everything that is going on. I had several break downs (away from dad), but I was able to lift my head again- thanks to the AMAZING support of friends and family. I think that aside from praying one must stay positive and try their best to see the positive in every situation as hard as that may be.
If my Dad can go everyday being positive, I think any of us can do the same. His strength, his belief and his positive spirit is something out of this world. ABSOLUTELY AMAZING! So thank you Dad for teaching us something everyday, and for sharing this with so many. We all look up to you and I just pray that I will one day be as incredible as you are. I love you!!
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Daniel-
Last week they found a blood clot in his right leg(the good leg) and also found fluid pockets. They took care of it and gave him blood thinner for a couple days. This past weekend he was coughing a lot and having a hard time breathing, they suspect the blood clot went to one of his lungs. However he is now stable and able to breath normally.
Daniel was in the OR (operating room) for nearly 12 hours yesterday. They did his hand grafting and worked on his left leg some. We still do not know what the decision is for his leg. But I will keep everyone posted. I will try to update blog everyday.
Today- Tuesday, Vanessa went back to Maryland to see him, he will be receiving his 'Purple Heart' today. The Purple Heart is a United States military decoration awarded in the name of the President to those who have been wounded or killed while serving on or after April 5, 1917 with the U.S. military.
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Purple heart:
Type: Medal
Eligibility: Military Personnel
Awarded for: "Being wounded or killed in any action against an enemy of the United States or as a result of an act of any such enemy or opposing armed forces"
Thanks to all of the Heroes! Stay strong Daniel. We love you!

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